A Music Meltdown

Dear Eric —

Question: At my local courts someone brings a Bluetooth speaker and blasts loud music during open play. Some players love it, others find it distracting or rude. Is it okay to play music at public courts? What should I do if it bothers me? — Jamie

Short answer: Music at open play is fine, if everyone agrees. It’s not fine when one person unilaterally hijacks the vibe and volume. In shared spaces, courtesy rules.

Why music can be a problem

  • Sound is subjective: what pumps one player up can throw another off their timing or concentration.

  • It interferes with communication: calls, line disputes, and partner signals get muffled.

  • Safety: loud music can mask calls, or shouts of “ball on!”..

  • Community norms: some parks have rules about amplified sound or require permits.

What to do in the moment

  • Start friendly: a quick, polite ask often fixes it. “Hey, great playlist, but could you lower it a bit? Some of us find it hard to hear calls.” Most people tone it down when they realize it impacts others.

  • Offer a compromise: suggest lower volume, shared music turns, or music only during certain times (warmups, not matches).

  • Use “we” language: “Could we keep the music low so both groups can enjoy play?” makes it less confrontational.

If the polite ask fails

  • Escalate calmly: If it’s a public facility, report to staff or parks management, many places prohibit amplified speakers without permission.

  • Organize norms: propose a simple etiquette sign or post in the club group: “If music is on, keep it low and check with the court.” When players set the rules, they’re more likely to be followed.

Bonus: be music‑minded

  • Share control: a small “music jar” where people contribute $1 that goes to new pickleballs for a turn can keep it fair and social.

  • And if it’s just that you don’t like their taste, next time get there first, bring your own speaker and jam out to your choice of tunes.

Bottom line: shared courts work best when everyone has a voice. Speak up politely, seek compromise, and involve staff if needed. You’ll preserve the fun, and the rhythm, for everyone.

— Dear Eric, Open Play Post

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